tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3498441393288101496.post773612602819776004..comments2012-09-05T14:18:05.066+05:30Comments on I ME MYSELF: How should we judge people?Anjali blogs...http://www.blogger.com/profile/13118423682761015071noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3498441393288101496.post-30824439532743162442009-06-11T22:13:09.129+05:302009-06-11T22:13:09.129+05:30well, maybe I was not very clear.. for me, "l...well, maybe I was not very clear.. for me, "liking them" itself is a motive... liking them extends to things like u feel happy interacting with them or something of that sort.. and to do something to make onself feel happy is itself a motive... motive doesn't necessarily mean that u gain something very big.. these motives are something which we do unknowingly...Santanuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04296760558512727259noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3498441393288101496.post-83193755463666106902009-06-09T19:35:33.523+05:302009-06-09T19:35:33.523+05:30umm.. dont really agree many of the times we keep ...umm.. dont really agree many of the times we keep up with people just because we generally like them... not really with a motive...Anjalihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03529736877414219059noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3498441393288101496.post-88139776138451006252009-06-06T13:02:52.874+05:302009-06-06T13:02:52.874+05:30Are we talking about people whom we usually intera...Are we talking about people whom we usually interact casually once in a while or on a long-term basis. For people whom we have been interacting on a long-term basis, then yes, probably judging people is important in the sense that it helps one to interact with that person better. I believe that it is just impossible for a person to interact with anybody else without any motive, however small it may be. Do we keep in touch with everybody whom we meet? Probably no. And it doesn't take much time to find out why somebody else wants to keep in touch with you or u want to keep contact with somebody. As for trust, it builds over time based on people's actions. But one way to judge people about their nature is through some actions which you can get to see fast - now what r those actions, u have to find out.. CheersSantanuhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04296760558512727259noreply@blogger.com