Thursday, October 22, 2009

... and I wonder

Is it all worth it?

When we choose to fulfill our wishes, trampling below our feet the wishes of our near-n-dear ones... Is it really worth it?

An inter-caste, inter-cultural wedding..... happiness about getting married lost in the midst of family tensions... I know ideally that should not be the case; but can we ignore the ground situation and choose to forget about the ecosystem we live in....? And even if we make our decisions... is it really for the best? Not sure....

To all those who wish to marry against parents' wishes.... its harder than you think, much much much harder, not just for you but for them..... the hardest part is watching them go through the the hard stuff.....It might worth it, but there is a good chance that it might not be.... its hard on your partner too... So, if you have slightest iota of doubt whether he is mature enough to take this....think again.

Wish I was never writing this.... sometimes, I wish I should have taken back my step.

3 comments:

Divesh said...

whatever happens, happens for good.. even your writing this post.

All the best for times to come :)

I me myself said...

:) It is!

I am so glad to have him by my side... but I keep wondering to myself that we have to continue to be so strong to take all this...

Probably its the strength of our relationship... shallow relationships can't possibly take this strain....

Santanu said...

Felt very good to read your thoughts because very few individuals think about these aspects. You guys are strong enough to take this, dear :) And of course, every relationship has its own strength and weaknesses and you guys taking this step indeed shows the strong bond in your relationship... All other eco-system aspects will certainly vanish with time as people come closer to each other...

So, enjoy the time and the moment... Cheers to life :)

All the very best in everything !!!